Friday, September 29, 2017

In New Orleans, LA 10/5 - 10/10 as a Special Guest for DomCon NOLA 2017

I am visiting New Orleans, LA and being honored as a Special Guest for DomCon NOLA 2017

This year My primary focus will be filming! Potential video victims complete My form for immediate consideration: 

Therefore I have VERY limited availability for sessions, and NO am NOT looking for any personal submissives during this trip.
However,  double domination sessions available with various other Professional Dominants who will be in attending the conference as well (contact Me directly to inquire which FemDoms will be available for double sessions).

A deposit is required to solidify a session NO EXCEPTIONS:

IF sending Me an email ( allow 12-24 hours for a response
(if a response at all) as My days tend to be too busy for immediate email responses when traveling & enjoying a conference.

Should supplicants have questions, concerns, etc they should contact Me via phone at
*82-404-52 2- 2 7 8 9 between 10 am - 11 pm CST for My immediate attention.
NO blocked calls or SMS messages ever entertained!

Monday, September 11, 2017

The Notorious Bossy Delilah visits Secret Shangri-La AZ September 15 -19, 2017

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A New York City native with Puerto Rican & Irani / Pakistani roots.  Based in Atlanta Georgia since Oct 2013 with frequent travels to; NYC, LA, FL, DC.

Bossy Delilah is a lifelong Dominatrix of incomparable caliber. Her 19+ years of practice in humiliation, degradation and mind fuckery have given Her keen insight into the psyche of the submissive male.  She believes that inside every male is a deeply seated inclination to serve and Obey that can be cultivated and manipulated by the ideal Dominatrix.  She is the catalyst that you seek.

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Whether you are about to take your first steps into submission, or if you are a man who knows kneeling well, Her door is open to those who seek Her unique brand of Control. Experience what it is like to be ruled by a True Queen. Surrender and embrace the suffering. To say yes to whatever She has in store for you.

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Transformation is your destination.

Delilah head shotFor more information about Her and how you can contact Her directly visit:

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Monday, September 4, 2017

My Dungeon; Secret Shangri-La AZ is a proud sponsor for AZ Leather Run 2017!

I am pleased to announce that My dungeon; Secret Shangri-La AZ will be the sponsor
for the Women's only dungeon / Playspace this weekend for the inaugural Arizona Leather Run (

A "Run" is a long standing tradition in the Leather community where several statewide Leather, MC Clubs, Leather organizations, bars, gathered in partnership and family, yearly, to create Run.

With this inaugural event; the local Leather Community Leaders are bringing the tradition and ritual back of A "Leather Run".
Leather in Arizona is STRONGER than ever!

United, WE offer ALL to join the family celebrating our lifestyle with the ARIZONA LEATHER RUN 2017-LEATHER TOGETHER!

Having space for Women to play is paramount!
Secret Shangri-La AZ is humbled and honored to be the 2017 Women's only play space sponsor for the AZ Leather Run.

Come out this weekend & be part of Leather tradition while making your own historical mark within the Leather, BDSM, Fetish, Kink community!

Monday, June 26, 2017

Why Atlanta so long? SUMMER TRAVEL UPDATE!

I have gotten alot of questions lately; 
A.  Why so much time in Atlanta? 
B.  Will you be visiting My city? 
C.  Why have you changed your tour cities??

A.  Well let's see, Atlanta will always be My home! One My favorite cities in the country! So much black & Caribbean culture, more melanin folks than most cities I frequent, southern hospitality, My ONYX & ONYX Pearls SE Leather  Family is here....
ALL of which keeps Me crazy busy when I am in Atlanta!
B. Will I be visiting "your" city?  I don't know how many times I have to say this "I ONLY TRAVEL TO YOUR CITY ONCE YOU HAVE SENT ME A DEPOSIT!" Meaning; I do not run all over the country unless you have shown Me you value My time and attention. You can not expect Me to take you serious about serving/submitting to Me if you can not appreciate and value My time.
C. I have changed My travel dates & cities that I am touring due to supply and demand. Simple as that!
My Atlanta tour has been extended; due to supply and demand. ALOT of cities that were initially on My tour I have canceled because those that have inquired to serve & session have yet to put their money where their mouth is.
I have also added Fort Lauderdale & Miami because of SUPPLY AND DEMAND! One lucky sub inquired and locked My commitment in by submitting their deposit.  EASY, not complicated & damn near idiot proof and self-explanatory. 
It can not get much clearer that that! Otherwise call Me directly for more information. But I do expect you to have your credit card in hand when you do call Me.

Upcoming On My calendar while in Atlanta:

Wednesday; June 28, 2017

Hump Day Happy Hour - Enema Talk

Friday, June 30, 2017 

Saturday, July 1, 2017 

Friday July 7, 2017

I will be visiting Atlanta until late July. With a week-long visit to Fort Lauderdale & Miami, FL mid-July.
I should also add that I am still in search for video victims. Those interested should fill out & submit My video slave form:

Any other questions CALL ME! My emails are 3-5 days turn around as I answer them in the order I receive them. YES, I am that backlogged on email responses since I no longer have an assistant handling email inquiries. Therefore phone is best!

Friday, June 2, 2017

Summer 2017 Pro Domme Tour

During June & July 2017, I will be visiting the following cities with consistent double domination sessions available:
Atlanta, GA
Cincinnati, OH
Chicago, IL
Detroit, MI
Manhattan, NYC
Long Island, NY

Tentative cities to include but not limited to:
Nashville, TN
Charlotte, NC
Hampton, VA
Washington, DC /  Maryland / VA area

Per usual Deposit, Appointment, and Tribute ALWAYS REQUIRED:$SHawkins

I will also be offering FIVE workshops during My Atlanta visit.
Presenting both My enema workshop and strap on / ass play workshops at South East Leather Fest (SELF) Conference.
As well as collaborating with Velvet Lips, LLC on two workshops;
My Strap on workshop (in case you missed it at SELF and My Polyamory workshop as well as hypnosis, one on one consultations & more!

So here is a video announcement of My June & July Summer 2017 Pro Domme Travel Tour.
Email Me at "" for more information.
Be sure to include your city & state in the subject line.

Sunday, May 14, 2017

My Spring 2017 Pro Domme Tour Annoucement

My May- July 2017 Pro Domme Travel announcements DomCon La #domcon#DomConLA #dominatrix #Jetset #Mistress #Domina #FemDom #FinDom#Domme
Los Angeles, CA May 18 - 22, 2017
Atlanta, GA June 7 - 19th 
East Coast tour to include: Charlotte NC, Chicago IL, Cincinnati OH, Detroit MI, Hampton VA, Manhattan & Long Island NY

Need more info? Email:

Tuesday, March 7, 2017

In Search Of: a competent domestic servant for Secret Shangri-La AZ

After going through FIVE domestic servants for My Dungeon: Secret Shangri-La AZ in the past two years.  I have finally accepted that fact that YES; I need a competent, reliable, sane & physically fit domestic sissy maid!
In the past My style of Female Dominance has always been for "s types" to pursue & petition Me for service. Well, since relocating to Phoenix 5 years ago I not only realized that is not how subs operate here, BUT that by Me waiting for an "s type" to petition Me; I am not finding quality / consistent/ devoted/ serious domestic service!
Which brings Me to this post!
Why you do not have to identify as a "sissy" or a effeminate submissive male.  I do require a domestic servant to wear a uniform.

I require this for several reasons:
1. It is an honor to serve Me & My Dungeon in a domestic capacity.
2. To remind you of your role & duties to My household.
3. I personally have a intense fetish for uniforms.
4. Wearing a feminine uniform in a house of Female Dominance not only gives reverence to the Divine Feminine but honors My personal philosophy of Gynarchy, Matriarchy, Female Supremacy & Female Led Relationships (FLR).

I also require the following:

  • Be service oriented! Meaning be here for the service, NOT for free playtime! Play is earned, not expected!
  • Be available for CONSISTENT domestic service at a minimum of one day per week.
  • Be financially secure; you will be required to purchase your own uniform, wardrobe, chastity device, and / or whatever I deem is appropriate for you to reflect the epotimy of a domestic servant.
  • Be single and / or realize that no external prior relationship will interfere with Me, nor your service to Me.
  • Have previous pertinent skill set! Ex, Know how to iron, defrost a refrigerator, clean a stove, operate a vacuum, clean a bathroom, scrub a floor, dust, and the importance of clean baseboards & windows, etc! YES, I pay close attention to detail and you should too.
  • That you understand & agree to consistently contribute to My household; physically, financially, emotionally,  and Spiritually. 

Potential domestic servants should send ALL of the following information in an email to "" with the subject matter: "domestic servant consideration for Secret Shangri-La AZ":
  1. Full legal name (YES I require full disclosure of identity of all those that serve Me on a personal basis)
  2. Telephone number & the best hours/ time frame to reach you.
  3. List of of your skill set. Both personal skill set (i.e. gardening, previous chambermaid experience, etc) & professional skill set (i.e. mechanical engineer, licensed massage therapist, real estate agent, etc).
  4. Stats: Age, height, weight, etc
  5. How you identify (i.e. sissy, slave, sub, switch, crossdresser, straight, bisexual, transgender, gender non-conforming, asexual, queer, etc)?
  6. Your preferred pronouns? (e.x. My preferred pronouns are Female pronouns. She, Her, Hers).
  7. Location? City and state.  Within driving distance to Phoenix, AZ or the luxury of flying into Phoenix Sky Harbor Airport on a consistent monthly basis.
Please note, that ANY email that does not contain ALL SEVEN pieces of information I have asked for will go ignored & unanswered.  If you can not follow My instruction... I am not interested in you, and have no use for your service.

Could this be you????

Thursday, January 26, 2017

February & March 2017 Annoucements

Pleased to announce:
Goddess Sadie visiting Las Vegas, NV Feb 2nd- 5th. 
I am presenting two workshops at Sin In The City 2017
My Strap on workshop as well as My Transgender Awareness presentation 

Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista visits My Dungeon in Phoenix, AZ Feb 11th - 15th:

Goddess Sadie visits Dallas, TX Feb 16th - 20th at Ebony Dominatrices weekend for 
Black HERstory Month:

Vinyl Queen visits My Dungeon in Phoenix, AZ March 2nd - 5th:

Vinyl Queen will also be a special guest at My quarterly CFNM FemDom Play Party:

I am currently accepting petitions for those interested in becoming a video victim. You must be local (or willing to travel to Phoenix, AZ at your expense).

Thursday, September 29, 2016

Libra Birthday Bash! "A Brunch & Beat"

What is a Brunch & Beat you ask?
A Brunch & Beat is a light Brunch followed by various BDSM activities.  This Brunch isn't your typical Sunday brunch. As it is being hosted in a BDSM Playspace Dungeon.  You can expect southern hospitality, ice-breaker pervy table conversation with an open forum to negotiate play scenes with those in attendance.
In the Spirit of D/s protocol, Dominants will be seated & served first.  Once Dominants have been served & have all their dining needs met, submissives will only then be dismissed to eat.
To honor Southern Food Heritage Day being on the same day as National Coming Out Day, I encourage those that identify as LGBTQQIAA (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Questioning, Intersex, Asexual & Allies) to attend and partake in the perverse debauchery.
The Brunch menu will be simple:
Water, Coffee, Tea, Mimosas paired with Southern Style biscuits and turkey sausage gravy, scrambled eggs, complete with cinnamon rolls as a sweet tooth option.
This event is limited to those that have visited Secret Shangri-La AZ previously, have personally been invited by me & are familiar with house rules.
F.E.E. (Fair Energy Exchange) contribution = $10 per person and / or $20 per poly family.
This event is reserved for the first 11 people to RSVP and/or submit their F.E.E. contribution in advance and YES, toting your own toy bag is strongly encouraged!
All RSVP's MUST be done via Eventbrite, as this event listed here serves merely as marketing & promotion purposes.:…

Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Goddess Bella Donna visits AZ for a limited time!

As many of My readers, subs, slaves, sluts, fans, devotees are aware of I relish My quality time with colleagues and established FemDoms throughout the country.  I am overjoyed to find out that a long time admired Professional Domina; Goddess Bella Donna is visiting Arizona for a short period. So of course I cleared My calendar, had My slave clear their calendar, scheduled us a car rental, & got us a travel itinerary to visit with the legendary Goddess Bella Donna.

I was first introduced to Goddess Bella Donna in 2011 by My esteemed Mentor, beloved Friend & colleague Mistress Athenais of NYC when She suggested I read Goddess Bella Donna's "Financial Domination without the smoke and mirrors." Which was an extremely helpful tool! Her book changed the way I approached the majority of My Professional Domination work & My overall business practices. YES, Her one book changed My entire business practice!  I have suggested it to several other colleagues and now make it a mandatory read for any/all Ladies that come to Me for mentorship or consulting on this Professional Domination career.
So tell Me why on earth would I miss this opportunity to get in person, one on one quality time with Ms Bella Donna?!?

I should also add, that She is visiting Arizona for a limited amount of time, therefore her time is extremely valuable. However She is available for real time sessions for those that She deems worthy. 

Find out more about the Goddess behind the veil, visit Her links: (Blog) (Brand new Facebook Page) ( New Twitter Account) (Google +1 Account)

Phone Venues: (Talk to Me ... BBW Momma Bella) (Talk to Me ... Mature BBW Smoking Mistress) (Talk to Me... Your relationship Life coach - Fetish Talk)

Clips4sale Studios: (Fat Mature and Fabulous Goddess - catch all) (Erotic Femdom Fetish Audios for sale) (Mature BBW Findomme) (Obey your satanic Goddess)

Books and Magazines for Sale:

Amazon Wish List:

Professional Real Time Domination session info page:

Thursday, March 24, 2016

Mistress Devlynn DeSade visits Secret Shangri-La AZ March 25 -29, 2016

imageWhat better way to close out March / Women's History month than to have Mistress Devlynn DeSade - the Queen of cruel visiting Secret Shangri-La AZ!  This is Her first visit to Arizona & I am beyond elated!
Mistress Devlynn DeSade is a lifestyle and professional Domina hailing from Cincinnati, Ohio, where She hosts several high protocol FemDom Goddess evenings for exploration and education in the FemDom Lifestyle.  She is the owner of DeSade Academy, a private Victorian Style dungeon located near downtown Cincinnati, hosting FemDom Art events and classes for 6 years.  Mistress DeSade is also an esteemed Priestess of the Order of Indomitus, a fully immersive 24/7 FemDom Weekend in Florida that hearkens back to the real FemDom majesty of the Other World Kingdom.
Her interests and gifts in the realm of BDSM include shibari, electro, medical, fire play, knife play, corporal, discipline, real slave training, real hypnosis, fetish exploration, pony play, and sensory overload.  Regardless of whether She is wielding a whip, a remote control, or Her words... Her power and control over a submissive plaything is deliciously addictive.
It’s not often that Phoenix has skilled Dominatrices visit, therefore I wouldn’t snooze on this opportunity!  I certainly am looking forward to double Domination sessions & getting some quality time in with Her during this tour. We co-top very well together & have been for several years!  I always enjoy the deviant debauchery in Her city, now it's time I get to share the Valley of the Sun with Her!  There has also been talk that She may be bringing Her Venus 2000; a high tech, hands free stroking masturbation machine. If you are familiar with the Venus 2000, email Her directly & let your interests be known!  Mistress Devlynn is also a certified hypnotherapist & Secret Shangri-La AZ definitely doesn't get to pull out our Nova Pro 100 hypnosis machine nearly enough! 
imageMistress Devlynn will also be available for private one-on-one sessions as well at Secret Shangri-La AZ by appointment and deposit only!  Time is always a valuable commodity when a Professional Dominatrix is on tour. So you out there reading this; show some respect and expect nothing if you aren’t willing to give some honor & appreciation for Her time.  I know you want to be a fly on the wall, BUT since we all know that is something you must earn– put your money where your mouth is! Allow your actions to speak for themselves; that’s not a hard task.  Like I always say; you only get one opportunity to make a first impression….
imageMistress Devlynn has been voted Cincinnati's best Dominatrix as well as DomCon LA 2014 Guest of Honor.  
For more information about Her, how you can contact Her directly & to learn more about Her visit:

Thursday, January 7, 2016

2016 New Year New Focus! The Year of Education...

Happy New Year!
2016 is FINALLY here.  2015 was a bit challenging with Me, surgery, a divorce, the release of a devoted slave girl; it seemed like 2015 just wouldn't end.
With all My personal shifts in 2015 I decided to take some time at the end of the year and fast for Kwanzaa to redirect My focus.  Fasting, Meditation, & some true introspection always is My magick pill.  Plus life itself was shifting for Me, without Me doing too much besides being still and taking note of those things The Most High Creator was manifesting in My life on this physical realm.
I have been wanting to shift My career for quite some time & alas the shift is happening!

I have been a full time Professional Domina for a little over 12 years now & a Leather Lifestyle Kinkster for even longer.  I always enjoy one -on- one power exchange experiences, however with the surge in online insta-Dommes & the sensationalizing of BDSM due to 50 Shades of --- everyone with a pretty face thinks becoming a Dominatrix is an easy overnight road to stardom. Education & mentorship seems to be a thing of the past; which really bothers Me!  I don't like to complain, therefore I am always trying to become a part of the solution.  2016, I will focus more on educating others on Power Exchange, FemDom, Leather History & tactical BDSM skills.

I have been chosen to be a presenter at Sin In The City 2016. Sin In the City is a an annual conference that takes place in Las Vegas, NV.  It is three days of erotic / kink education, BDSM Dungeon play parties every night, host of International Leather Person of Leather contest, vendors & shopping on top of kinky people from all over the country in one hotel for 3 days. PRICELESS!
I will be teaching three classes:
1.  The Ins & Outs of Enemas
2.  I want my mommy! Age Play 101
3.  Lace Up Lessons; The history of tight lacing, waist training, corsetry & its influence on Women's intimate apparel
Sin In The City is the first of many opportunities I will be educating others in the Kink community.
Stay tune to this blog for other events I will be presenting at.  
I also offer on - on - one mentoring & hands on education via My consulting company; Carib X Consulting Group, LLC.  If interested in booking Me send all inquires to:

I also recently enrolled in a course to become a certified event planner.  With the launch of My Dungeon; Secret Shangri-La AZ in 2014 & collaborating with Ms Navia O'Kink putting on Ebony FemDom Events every quarter in Dallas, TX, I realized I thoroughly enjoy throwing events!  So why not get certified so that I can possibly pursue planning fabulous events for others!

Lastly, but certainly not least, I am now the 2016 Director of Marketing for ONYX Pearls Southeast! ONYX & ONYX Pearls are currently the only fraternity & sorority for POC (People of Color) in the Leather, BDSM, Fetish, Kink & M/s Communities.  I became an ONYX Pearl in 2008 & am quite zealous of the re-launch!  What this also means for those out there that follow Me, is that I will be visiting My Atlanta home & ONYX family more often this year!

So needless to say, 2016 is going to be the year of education! 
As My mentor & ONYX Pearl family says "Each One Teach One."

I should also add, that even though My schedule will be quite busy with school; I will still be available for Professional Domination sessions, peer - to - peer mentoring, & Consulting services via appointment ONLY. As always deposits will be required from anyone I have not seen previously: NO EXCEPTIONS!

Just to give everyone a heads up as to the cities I am confirmed for 2016:
Las Vegas, NV
Las Angeles, CA
Dallas, TX
Denver, CO
Louisville, KY
Cincinnati, OH
Chicago, IL
Atlanta, GA
Nashville, TN
Manhattan, NYC

If you are in ANY of these cities & are wanting to session with Me; get your deposits in! I am also looking for slaves willing to donate frequent flyer miles or Southwest Airlines gift cards sent to the email address: ""

Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Madam Quinn Helix visits Secret Shangri-La AZ Dec 16 - 22, 2015

What a perfect treat for the holidays!  Madam Quinn Helix; a Professional Domina based in Los Angeles, CA will be visiting Phoenix December 16 - 22nd.  It's not often this city has skilled Dominas visit, therefore I wouldn't snooze on this opportunity!  I certainly am looking forward to double Domination sessions & getting some quality time in with Her during this Holiday tour. Madam Quinn will also be available for private one-on-one sessions as well at My Dungeon; Secret Shangri-La AZ by appointment and deposit only! I should note that She also requires a 3 hour notice for same day appointments.  Time is always a valuable commodity when a Professional Domina is on tour. So you out there reading this; show some respect and expect nothing if you aren't willing to give some honor & appreciation for Her time.
I know you want to be a fly on the wall, BUT since we all know that is something you must earn-- put your money where your mouth is! Allow your actions to speak for themselves; that's not a hard task.  Like I always say; you only get one opportunity to make a first impression....
It is indeed the holiday season and what better way to celebrate than to submit to an experienced FemDom?
Who is Madam Quinn Helix you ask?  Have you been living under a rock for the past few years??? If that is your pathetic existence, I'm going to help you out and share some pictures, more information about Her & links as to how you can contact Her directly:

Here's a little about the Madam behind the Name:
A curvaceous 5' 7" Alpha Femme with porcelain skin and jet black hair.  She appreciates darker perspectives of reality and identifies strongly with Deities and Divine beings, She will carve a path into your mind and manipulate you from the inside. 

She likes men who are obedient, respect Her and use proper etiquette. She's sadistically inclined and loves a devoted masochist that is willing to serve Her sadistic desires. Corporal Punishment is one of Her many natural talents as a Dominant.

Although She is a strong sadist She is a versatile individual that thrives on consistent dynamics of all types ranging from sensual Domination, role play, tease and denial, humiliation and a myriad of fetish centered sessions. 

She has an affinity for vintage clothing circa 1940's-50's, wasp waist corsets, leather, tall thigh-high boots, latex and bondage style harnesses. She wears a size 10 in heels - the higher the better.

Before contacting Her, you must provide the following:

Your name
Where you found Her
Your level of experience
Your hard limits and medical conditions (if any)
Duration of servitude
Availability you have (dates and times)
References (if any)

Her contact info: