Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Madam Quinn Helix visits Secret Shangri-La AZ Dec 16 - 22, 2015

What a perfect treat for the holidays!  Madam Quinn Helix; a Professional Domina based in Los Angeles, CA will be visiting Phoenix December 16 - 22nd.  It's not often this city has skilled Dominas visit, therefore I wouldn't snooze on this opportunity!  I certainly am looking forward to double Domination sessions & getting some quality time in with Her during this Holiday tour. Madam Quinn will also be available for private one-on-one sessions as well at My Dungeon; Secret Shangri-La AZ by appointment and deposit only! I should note that She also requires a 3 hour notice for same day appointments.  Time is always a valuable commodity when a Professional Domina is on tour. So you out there reading this; show some respect and expect nothing if you aren't willing to give some honor & appreciation for Her time.
I know you want to be a fly on the wall, BUT since we all know that is something you must earn-- put your money where your mouth is! Allow your actions to speak for themselves; that's not a hard task.  Like I always say; you only get one opportunity to make a first impression....
It is indeed the holiday season and what better way to celebrate than to submit to an experienced FemDom?
Who is Madam Quinn Helix you ask?  Have you been living under a rock for the past few years??? If that is your pathetic existence, I'm going to help you out and share some pictures, more information about Her & links as to how you can contact Her directly:

Here's a little about the Madam behind the Name:
A curvaceous 5' 7" Alpha Femme with porcelain skin and jet black hair.  She appreciates darker perspectives of reality and identifies strongly with Deities and Divine beings, She will carve a path into your mind and manipulate you from the inside. 

She likes men who are obedient, respect Her and use proper etiquette. She's sadistically inclined and loves a devoted masochist that is willing to serve Her sadistic desires. Corporal Punishment is one of Her many natural talents as a Dominant.

Although She is a strong sadist She is a versatile individual that thrives on consistent dynamics of all types ranging from sensual Domination, role play, tease and denial, humiliation and a myriad of fetish centered sessions. 

She has an affinity for vintage clothing circa 1940's-50's, wasp waist corsets, leather, tall thigh-high boots, latex and bondage style harnesses. She wears a size 10 in heels - the higher the better.

Before contacting Her, you must provide the following:

Your name
Where you found Her
Your level of experience
Your hard limits and medical conditions (if any)
Duration of servitude
Availability you have (dates and times)
References (if any)

Her contact info:

Saturday, November 28, 2015

Ebony FemDom Sorority Weekend Nov 2015 Dallas, TX

Ahhhhhh, where to begin?!?
I have only been home for a few days, still decompressing from all the debauchery, delicious bonding with other Black Women. Who ironically represented all four Sororities that make up the National Pan-Hellenic Council. 
After living in Phoenix for the past four years, it had been ages since I have gotten that much time with other Sisters. SO LONG OVERDUE!
I had the pleasure to meet Mistress Navia O'Kink at a Club FEM Dallas party while I was visiting Dallas for International Master/slave Weekend. We later ran into each other during DomCon Atlanta & I was inspired for Her desire to orchestrate a Black FemDom Sunday Brunch on the fly (on top of pulling off an amazing brunch, that was sponsored by a few of the male submissives that were attending DomCon that weekend.
Left to Right; Myself, Serene Sin, Navia O'Kink, anon Lifestyle Ebony FemDom, &  Mz Xcellente
@DomCon Atlanta 2012 Ebony FemDom Sunday Brunch
After that amazing DomCon Atlanta weekend We grew extremely close which would result in Me visiting Dallas about a dozen times the past several years and brought Her to Phoenix, AZ for the Super Bowl 49 of which I could help but host a CFNM FemDom party in Her honor.
Needles to say, Ms Navia & I have become thick as thieves! Not just collegues, but good friends both in & out of the Lifestyle.
So it is My pleasure to do this collaboration; Ebony FemDom Events!
Here's a few pics from the inaugural Ebony FemDom Sorority Weekend:

Ms Navia, Mz Xcellente, & Myself tormenting one lucky slave. Yes, I am indeed on nipple torture duty! LOL
Left to right; Ms V, Mz Xcellente, Myself,  Ms Navia O'Kink & two lucky slaves from the weekend festivities.

Thursday, October 8, 2015

In Honor of Southern Food Heritage Day & National Coming Out Day

This is the 1st of several events to kick off My blessed born month. 
I will be hosting a Brunch & Beat event Sunday October 11, 2015 @ 11 a.m. in My Dungeon; 

What is a Brunch & Beat you ask?
A Brunch & Beat is a light Brunch followed by various BDSM activities.  This Brunch isn't your typical Sunday brunch. As it is being hosted in a BDSM Playspace Dungeon.  You can expect southern hospitality, ice-breaker pervy table conversation with an open forum to negotiate play scenes with those in attendance.

In the Spirit of D/s protocol Dominants will be seated & served first.  Once Dominants have been served & have all their dining needs met, submissives will only then be dismissed to eat.

To honor Southern Food Heritage Day being on the same day as National Coming Out Day, I encourage those that identify as LGBTQQIAA (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Questioning, Intersex, Asexual & Allies) to attend and partake in the perverse debauchery.

The Brunch menu will be simple:
Coffee, Tea, Mimosas paired with Southern Style biscuits and turkey sausage gravy, complete with cinnamon rolls as a sweet tooth option.

This event is limited to those that have visited Secret Shangri-La AZ previously, have personally been invited by me & are familiar with house rules.
F.E.E. (Fair Energy Exchange) contribution = $7 per person and / or $11 per poly family.
This event is reserved for the first 11 people to RSVP and/or submit their F.E.E. contribution in advance via square cash (cash.me/$shawkins) or google wallet to email address: Goddess.SadieHawkins@gmail.com and YES, toting your own toy bag is strongly encouraged!

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

My Dungeon Secret Shangri-La AZ featured on Playboy.com

My Dungeon Secret Shangri-La AZ made the header photograph for this Playboy.com article! Guess they were not only impressed by The Sand Angel Photography capture, but must have been impressed with My Dungeon design and layout!

Check out the article:

My Playspace website: https://secretshangrila.wordpress.com/photo-gallery/

If you are interested in utilizing My unique kinky bed&bondage/breakfast playspace $250 a night leave Me an email at: secret.shangrilaphoenix@gmail.com 
Please allow up to 72 hours for a response.  I answer emails in the order I receive them.

Thursday, June 25, 2015

Be still My beating heart; "Queen City" BKA Cincinnati, Ohio

By far the most luscious, luxurious, and highlight of My June 2015 tour thus far has been Cincinnati!
The home of esteemed colleague and FemDom Sister Friend; Goddess Devlynn DeSade.  We met 5+ years ago at DomCon Atlanta & have been cohorts in kink ever since!

Domina Devlynn always makes Me feel so at home! This visit was jammed pack (as usual). I arrived on Thursday evening with sessions booked upon My arrival. Later that evening We did a guest appearance at the The Dock; a downtown Cincinnati Goth Club. Which I always love because I get to get dressed up in fetish attire and am surrounded by people that can appreciate the high end wardrobe both of Us were sporting that evening:

Our sexy latex looks for an evening at The Dock.

Saturday evening We hosted a high protocol private FemDom party. Something Goddess Devlynn has started doing annually. I was honored to cohost with Her this year.  I will attempt to make this event EVERY YEAR! In was definitely worth traveling to and pre-planning in My busy calendar. The event was an evening of Goddess Worship, adoration, pure elegance and debauchery for FemDom devotees and explorers. We were able to offer expert guidance in the art of Female Domination. The event was stellar! I will only give a snippet here on My blog. Stay tuned for the video clips and explicit pictures via My niteflirt listing in the upcoming weeks. 

Goddess Devlynn giving some pointers to the newer Ladies.
Some of the rules the slaves in attendance learned during that evening.
The Ladies in Attendance as well as one lucky sissy maid
As many of My devotees know I do not work on Sunday. A Goddess has to have at least ONE day of rest.  Which is another ritual Domina Devlynn and I share; NO WORKING ON SUNDAY! Which meant I got to enjoy a relaxing Sunday; which ironically was Fathers day; therefore I spent in solitude down on the Ohio River communing with Goddess Deity Mami Wata & honoring My Papa who transitioned to Spirit realm almost 3 years ago. A bit of self care and reflective time; which is always needed! 

Monday was spent in sessions & teaching other Ladies the secret Art of Female Domination. I really enjoy teaching The Next Generation (TNG, as it is affectionally known within the Kink Community). Facilitating workshops, demos, classes, and interviews has been more of My focus in 2015. " "Each One Teach One" as My elders have taught Me.  

I plan on another visit to Cincinnati before I head back to Phoenix later in July for more teaching, empowering other Ladies to get in touch with their inner FemDom, more photo shoots, videos shoots, as well as a few sessions that I missed this visit. Appears as if My next visit to Queen City is set for Thursday July 23 - Monday 27th if not sooner?!?!????  Queen City always treats Me like a Queen!

Much Gratitude & Appreciation to My Gracious Hostess; Domina Devlynn DeSade! ALWAYS looking forward to doing it all again & then some sooner than later....

Thursday, April 23, 2015

Spring 2015 East Coast Tour

Oh it's been a while since a update, so here goes!
Since acquiring My playspace Secret ShangriLa AZ in October 2014 I have been uber busy with several additions to My stable of slaves, Professional Domination sessions, filming new fetish content, hosting play parties, teaching workshops, along with several visitors nationwide I have neglected to update this blog.
Take note, that this blog is on the bottom of My "to do list" these days. Those that have the privilege of communicating with Me know that this Goddess is busy damn near 12-16 hours EVERY DAY!
Let Me be clear that I do not have free time, I make time for those things I choose to devote any of My attention to.
Therefore I am diverting My attention to My favorite pastime, TRAVEL!
For the month of June (and possibly some of July too; I am leaving My options open for right now) I will be visiting:
Charleston, SC (tentative)
Hickory, NC (tentative)
Indianapolis, IN (tentative)
Cities in bold are already confirmed. Meaning I will be in those cities & have started accepting deposits for those cities, which is I determine where I will be spending My time. Cities where subs appreciate Me is where I spend more of My time. Deposits are required for those I have not seen previous to this tour. NO EXCEPTIONS! 
Please note that I am NOT interested in Lifestyle slaves at this time. Professional Domination ONLY; so don't ask!
Co-topping & double Domination sessions will be available in Atlanta, Louisville & Cincinnati ONLY.
If interested in booking a session, email Me at: Goddess.SadieHawkins@gmail.com
In the subject line state which city you reside.  Also include a brief introduction, short list of your interests & limits along with your contact information.
I see a limited number of submissives, so act accordingly.

Monday, January 26, 2015

Jan 2015 CFNM play party has a special guest of honor; Mistress Navia O'Kink of Dallas, TX!

Special Guest for Jan 31, 2015 CFNM event is visiting Disciplinarian Mistress Navia O'Kink of Dallas, TX: http://www.naviaokink.com/
At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The Females can have the males, serve them food and/or drinks, dance for the Ladies, give them foot, shoulder or body massages (massage table & lotions will be available), play games and whatever comes to the female mind. This party the Females will be in charge. 
The males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without permission or the Females can just sit back a watch all the naked males as they serve them. 
Rules for this party: 
1. All the males at the party must be naked no exceptions.
2. We are all adults at the party , and if someone says no, it means no. It should be respected. We all have different limits. All in attendance will respect the limitations & comfort level of everyone in attendance. Limits will be respected, and you do not have to engage in any activities you do not want to, but you must be OK with wild things happening all around you.
3. BYOB; This is a potluck, so please bring prepared finger food & dishes that are easy to serve.
4. Alcohol is allowed (BYOB), however please drink responsibly. 
5. This party is in a BDSM/ Fetish/ Kink Friendly private residence, off street parking is available.  Fetish play, S/m play is allowed, however all scenes must be negotiated between all consenting parties prior to playing.
6. NO photos or recording allowed unless a adult model release is signed (model releases will be available for those interested in picture or video taking).
7.  NO illegal services offered, implied, or allowed.  ANY solicitations for sexual services will not be tolerated.  
8. Informed Consent Waivers, entry fee & model release forms (if applicable) must be signed prior to admittance.
9.  For the safety, security and discretion of all, PLEASE NOTE THERE IS NO “PAY AT THE DOOR” for this event! NO EXCEPTIONS!  
To stay up to date with upcoming events visit:  Secret Shangri-La AZ