Thursday, September 29, 2016

Libra Birthday Bash! "A Brunch & Beat"

What is a Brunch & Beat you ask?
A Brunch & Beat is a light Brunch followed by various BDSM activities.  This Brunch isn't your typical Sunday brunch. As it is being hosted in a BDSM Playspace Dungeon.  You can expect southern hospitality, ice-breaker pervy table conversation with an open forum to negotiate play scenes with those in attendance.
In the Spirit of D/s protocol, Dominants will be seated & served first.  Once Dominants have been served & have all their dining needs met, submissives will only then be dismissed to eat.
To honor Southern Food Heritage Day being on the same day as National Coming Out Day, I encourage those that identify as LGBTQQIAA (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Questioning, Intersex, Asexual & Allies) to attend and partake in the perverse debauchery.
The Brunch menu will be simple:
Water, Coffee, Tea, Mimosas paired with Southern Style biscuits and turkey sausage gravy, scrambled eggs, complete with cinnamon rolls as a sweet tooth option.
This event is limited to those that have visited Secret Shangri-La AZ previously, have personally been invited by me & are familiar with house rules.
F.E.E. (Fair Energy Exchange) contribution = $10 per person and / or $20 per poly family.
This event is reserved for the first 11 people to RSVP and/or submit their F.E.E. contribution in advance and YES, toting your own toy bag is strongly encouraged!
All RSVP's MUST be done via Eventbrite, as this event listed here serves merely as marketing & promotion purposes.:…

Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Goddess Bella Donna visits AZ for a limited time!

As many of My readers, subs, slaves, sluts, fans, devotees are aware of I relish My quality time with colleagues and established FemDoms throughout the country.  I am overjoyed to find out that a long time admired Professional Domina; Goddess Bella Donna is visiting Arizona for a short period. So of course I cleared My calendar, had My slave clear their calendar, scheduled us a car rental, & got us a travel itinerary to visit with the legendary Goddess Bella Donna.

I was first introduced to Goddess Bella Donna in 2011 by My esteemed Mentor, beloved Friend & colleague Mistress Athenais of NYC when She suggested I read Goddess Bella Donna's "Financial Domination without the smoke and mirrors." Which was an extremely helpful tool! Her book changed the way I approached the majority of My Professional Domination work & My overall business practices. YES, Her one book changed My entire business practice!  I have suggested it to several other colleagues and now make it a mandatory read for any/all Ladies that come to Me for mentorship or consulting on this Professional Domination career.
So tell Me why on earth would I miss this opportunity to get in person, one on one quality time with Ms Bella Donna?!?

I should also add, that She is visiting Arizona for a limited amount of time, therefore her time is extremely valuable. However She is available for real time sessions for those that She deems worthy. 

Find out more about the Goddess behind the veil, visit Her links: (Blog) (Brand new Facebook Page) ( New Twitter Account) (Google +1 Account)

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Thursday, March 24, 2016

Mistress Devlynn DeSade visits Secret Shangri-La AZ March 25 -29, 2016

imageWhat better way to close out March / Women's History month than to have Mistress Devlynn DeSade - the Queen of cruel visiting Secret Shangri-La AZ!  This is Her first visit to Arizona & I am beyond elated!
Mistress Devlynn DeSade is a lifestyle and professional Domina hailing from Cincinnati, Ohio, where She hosts several high protocol FemDom Goddess evenings for exploration and education in the FemDom Lifestyle.  She is the owner of DeSade Academy, a private Victorian Style dungeon located near downtown Cincinnati, hosting FemDom Art events and classes for 6 years.  Mistress DeSade is also an esteemed Priestess of the Order of Indomitus, a fully immersive 24/7 FemDom Weekend in Florida that hearkens back to the real FemDom majesty of the Other World Kingdom.
Her interests and gifts in the realm of BDSM include shibari, electro, medical, fire play, knife play, corporal, discipline, real slave training, real hypnosis, fetish exploration, pony play, and sensory overload.  Regardless of whether She is wielding a whip, a remote control, or Her words... Her power and control over a submissive plaything is deliciously addictive.
It’s not often that Phoenix has skilled Dominatrices visit, therefore I wouldn’t snooze on this opportunity!  I certainly am looking forward to double Domination sessions & getting some quality time in with Her during this tour. We co-top very well together & have been for several years!  I always enjoy the deviant debauchery in Her city, now it's time I get to share the Valley of the Sun with Her!  There has also been talk that She may be bringing Her Venus 2000; a high tech, hands free stroking masturbation machine. If you are familiar with the Venus 2000, email Her directly & let your interests be known!  Mistress Devlynn is also a certified hypnotherapist & Secret Shangri-La AZ definitely doesn't get to pull out our Nova Pro 100 hypnosis machine nearly enough! 
imageMistress Devlynn will also be available for private one-on-one sessions as well at Secret Shangri-La AZ by appointment and deposit only!  Time is always a valuable commodity when a Professional Dominatrix is on tour. So you out there reading this; show some respect and expect nothing if you aren’t willing to give some honor & appreciation for Her time.  I know you want to be a fly on the wall, BUT since we all know that is something you must earn– put your money where your mouth is! Allow your actions to speak for themselves; that’s not a hard task.  Like I always say; you only get one opportunity to make a first impression….
imageMistress Devlynn has been voted Cincinnati's best Dominatrix as well as DomCon LA 2014 Guest of Honor.  
For more information about Her, how you can contact Her directly & to learn more about Her visit:

Thursday, January 7, 2016

2016 New Year New Focus! The Year of Education...

Happy New Year!
2016 is FINALLY here.  2015 was a bit challenging with Me, surgery, a divorce, the release of a devoted slave girl; it seemed like 2015 just wouldn't end.
With all My personal shifts in 2015 I decided to take some time at the end of the year and fast for Kwanzaa to redirect My focus.  Fasting, Meditation, & some true introspection always is My magick pill.  Plus life itself was shifting for Me, without Me doing too much besides being still and taking note of those things The Most High Creator was manifesting in My life on this physical realm.
I have been wanting to shift My career for quite some time & alas the shift is happening!

I have been a full time Professional Domina for a little over 12 years now & a Leather Lifestyle Kinkster for even longer.  I always enjoy one -on- one power exchange experiences, however with the surge in online insta-Dommes & the sensationalizing of BDSM due to 50 Shades of --- everyone with a pretty face thinks becoming a Dominatrix is an easy overnight road to stardom. Education & mentorship seems to be a thing of the past; which really bothers Me!  I don't like to complain, therefore I am always trying to become a part of the solution.  2016, I will focus more on educating others on Power Exchange, FemDom, Leather History & tactical BDSM skills.

I have been chosen to be a presenter at Sin In The City 2016. Sin In the City is a an annual conference that takes place in Las Vegas, NV.  It is three days of erotic / kink education, BDSM Dungeon play parties every night, host of International Leather Person of Leather contest, vendors & shopping on top of kinky people from all over the country in one hotel for 3 days. PRICELESS!
I will be teaching three classes:
1.  The Ins & Outs of Enemas
2.  I want my mommy! Age Play 101
3.  Lace Up Lessons; The history of tight lacing, waist training, corsetry & its influence on Women's intimate apparel
Sin In The City is the first of many opportunities I will be educating others in the Kink community.
Stay tune to this blog for other events I will be presenting at.  
I also offer on - on - one mentoring & hands on education via My consulting company; Carib X Consulting Group, LLC.  If interested in booking Me send all inquires to:

I also recently enrolled in a course to become a certified event planner.  With the launch of My Dungeon; Secret Shangri-La AZ in 2014 & collaborating with Ms Navia O'Kink putting on Ebony FemDom Events every quarter in Dallas, TX, I realized I thoroughly enjoy throwing events!  So why not get certified so that I can possibly pursue planning fabulous events for others!

Lastly, but certainly not least, I am now the 2016 Director of Marketing for ONYX Pearls Southeast! ONYX & ONYX Pearls are currently the only fraternity & sorority for POC (People of Color) in the Leather, BDSM, Fetish, Kink & M/s Communities.  I became an ONYX Pearl in 2008 & am quite zealous of the re-launch!  What this also means for those out there that follow Me, is that I will be visiting My Atlanta home & ONYX family more often this year!

So needless to say, 2016 is going to be the year of education! 
As My mentor & ONYX Pearl family says "Each One Teach One."

I should also add, that even though My schedule will be quite busy with school; I will still be available for Professional Domination sessions, peer - to - peer mentoring, & Consulting services via appointment ONLY. As always deposits will be required from anyone I have not seen previously: NO EXCEPTIONS!

Just to give everyone a heads up as to the cities I am confirmed for 2016:
Las Vegas, NV
Las Angeles, CA
Dallas, TX
Denver, CO
Louisville, KY
Cincinnati, OH
Chicago, IL
Atlanta, GA
Nashville, TN
Manhattan, NYC

If you are in ANY of these cities & are wanting to session with Me; get your deposits in! I am also looking for slaves willing to donate frequent flyer miles or Southwest Airlines gift cards sent to the email address: ""